Why nice guys NEVER get the girl.

Post by **Falco Girgis** » Mon Sep 06, 2004 9:42 pm

http://www.esato.com/archive/t.php/t-65044

So so true.
I consider myself that "nice guy".

What a screwed up world we live in...

DISCUSS!!!!

Dark Crusader · Post by **Dark Crusader** » Tue Sep 07, 2004 7:27 am

Shutup! I am curently trying to get a girl to go out with me! Now you just made me get real depreast like. sadness..

Don Pwnious · Post by **Don Pwnious** » Tue Sep 07, 2004 2:46 pm

hahaha. I would not know the answer. but it is true

Post by **MarauderIIC** » Tue Sep 07, 2004 4:04 pm

Ha ha ha ha ha. You know what? I already knew this. However, I can relate it directly to me. Girl on bus I had a crush on sat next to me every day and complained to me about how shitty her boyfriends (yes, plural. she goes through a lot of boyfriends) were. Now, see, here's the part I'm not sure about -- was she trying to make me make a move? 'Cause I'm too self-conscious (not shy, per se) to ask a girl out directly. Or was she just draining my supply of emotional support...?

Post by **MarauderIIC** » Tue Sep 07, 2004 4:14 pm

Some of the more interesting posts, compiled here because I'm rahter bored--I mean, for your convenience:

friscosjoke wrote:I think you will find that once you get a little older then the mature girls no longer want the "bad boy" but they also do not want a man that upon a first couple of dates will jump at their beck and call.(that is the male equivalent of being clingey.) They just want to see that you are confident enough on your own that you dont need them. Being needed is aresponsibility being wanted just feels good.

swipe108 wrote:Girls in in their twenties are no different than others. they all want the a**hole.

ShawO wrote:i hafta disagree with u guys man...
the word "asshole" in the article should be replaced by the more fitting word: "playa"

like they say... don't hate the player... hate the game

KiMcHeEbOi wrote:playa=asshole
im guilty of being an asshole myself, i was just thinking why trying to be nice never works.

methylated_spirit wrote:Thats utterly brilliant, how true! The closer you read it, the more true it is!

Liam wrote:here here a very true observation there, i think we should send that to all the girls who bitch about there guy at the same time as trying to "improve" them.

plasmadog wrote:i think u should speak your mind whenever u can, just tell the girl that she can't use u like a dirty rag everytime the a**hole guy dumps her!

tell her honestly.., cos u aren't obligated to be nice and listen to her all the time. maybe that should knock some sense into her!!

and one more thing, kim old man... there are plenty of fish in the sea, and look at it this way.. you're doing her a favour by listening and not the other way round.

if she really thinks that she's your good friend, she won't do that again.

knight4led wrote:I thought for sure that the women of this forum would have flocked to this thread and complained about how untrue it is. I think it's silent consent on their parts. So what we should learn from this whole thing is that too much off an asshole pisses other guys off to no end and being nice never gets you play.[...]

lor wrote:No one sticks long to a bad boy. Those relationships never last long. The girls get played, they move along. The guy keeps playing, gets married, plays some more, gets caught, [...] dies.

The girls that get caught up in their game, suffer along. The girls that end up with nice guys, normally have a pretty great life.

MUAHAHAHAHAHAH

Don't worry about it too much, and nice guys can get girls too. Just how you work yourself. Don't need to be an asshole to get girls. You don't have to lie through your teeth to get laid. Might be different in your country though... lol

Post by **Falco Girgis** » Tue Sep 07, 2004 4:54 pm

You know what? I wish I could be there when half of the girls pull their heads out of their assholes long enough to realize that the nice guys that were offering the support would of been the better boyfriend.

That's truely pathetic.

Wutai · Post by **Wutai** » Tue Sep 07, 2004 8:30 pm

You sir, are a complete, X-TREME, loser.

:marioface:

Post by **Falco Girgis** » Tue Sep 07, 2004 8:55 pm

Dark Crusader · Post by **Dark Crusader** » Thu Sep 09, 2004 7:42 am

SS not every girl is a biznach! I happen to know one that is ausome! She plays video games, and she likes anime!!!!!!!!!!

Just so you know she is the one im asking out. I beleave I have a very good chance!

mrhershel · Post by **mrhershel** » Thu Sep 09, 2004 2:24 pm

it's not that you have to be an asshole. you just have to stand back alittle. girls figure if you want them a lot, and if your willing to talk to them, then you must not be cool enough or they could do better or something. at least thats my theory. i've also discovered that as much as many girls bitch about guys only looking at their body and not their personality, most of them do the same damn thing when they look for a guy.

Krystal Kirby · Post by **Krystal Kirby** » Thu Sep 09, 2004 11:45 pm

everytime I read this topic it makes me laugh for some odd reason

Post by **Falco Girgis** » Fri Sep 10, 2004 2:24 pm

Perhaps you do it to keep from crying due to the naivety of your gender?

Perhaps you do it because you are too ignorant to understand this conversation?

Or perhaps you're just making that up and you're weeping at this very moment... o.O

Don Pwnious · Post by **Don Pwnious** » Fri Sep 10, 2004 2:50 pm

Umm.. i think some girls likes nice/sweet boys, most like asshole i dont know
uhhh. you drak crusader are asking out a girl. would anyone here on the forums happen to know her, besides you?

Post by **JS Lemming** » Fri Sep 10, 2004 3:44 pm

Super Sonic wrote:Perhaps you do it to keep from crying due to the naivety of your gender?

Perhaps you do it because you are too ignorant to understand this conversation?

Or perhaps you're just making that up and you're weeping at this very moment... o.O

All that time in theater wasn't wasted after all.

Guest · Post by **Guest** » Sat Sep 11, 2004 12:37 am

Super Sonic wrote:
Perhaps you do it to keep from crying due to the naivety of your gender?

Perhaps you do it because you are too ignorant to understand this conversation?

Or perhaps you're just making that up and you're weeping at this very moment... o.O

All that time in theater wasn't wasted after all.

What's that supposed to mean?

Are there any females on this forum? o.o

SS, some random PEOPLE (not person) accidentally on purpose jacked the photo albums of our adventures. They told me to tell you that you are hot. (Yes, their females)

Hmmm....I guess, by what the topic name says, you're not a nice guy?